“Let me take a break of 5 minutes and browse the internet,” you think. An hour later, you are still browsing the internet.
Youtube, Facebook, Instagram, Quora, and Pinterest have extended breaks from “a few minutes” to “oh shit, I just wasted 2 hours.”
The social media apps have learned the trick to hold your attention for long hours. As a victim, you end up interrupted while studying, working or doing anything important.
I had the same habit. I would read something random on the internet, check social media feed or glance through my text messages every time I completed a task. The time I spent would vary. Sometimes I wasted only 2 minutes and at times 2 hours.
I would find myself wasting time on things I knew were useless. To make it worse, I even wasted time when I knew I had important work to do.
I know that many others face the same problem.
Over time, by flipping through the pages of a bazillion books, trying hundreds of experiments and wasting more time to find ways to save time, here are the ways which helped me stop wasting time. Maybe they will help you too.
Please note: When it comes to wasting time, there is no one fit for all. Each person has a different way of wasting time. So some of these tips might work for you and some may not.
If you can relate to a problem and believe the solution might help, try implementing it for a few days or weeks to check for the results.
9 Ways to stop wasting time
1. Put your phone on DND
The smartphone is a device of distraction. We love to hear our phone ding or buzz. Checking our notification helps us feel good due to a shot of dopamine. The text usually is the bank providing a personal loan or an offer from the supermarket that you would never avail.
As human beings, resisting the urge to check our text messages is not an easy battle to win against ourselves. The easier solution is to prevent your phone from buzzing and sounding notifications.
I put my phone on DND for the entire day except for 8 PM – 11 PM. Other than those 3 hours, my phone lies on DND for 21 hours a day. This change has saved me from wasting cartloads of time.
Learn how to effectively put your phone on DND based on your scenario.
A few years earlier if anyone told me to use DND for 21 hours a day, I would have laughed at the idea. You think your circumstances will not let you use DND for most of the day, but trust me, you can.
If you implement only one tip from this list, this gotta be the one.
2. Use websites instead of apps
I had all the social media apps on my phone such as Facebook, Quora, Pinterest, Instagram, and whatnot. An app makes the usage simpler and user-friendly. On the other side, apps create an addiction because they can send you notifications while websites cannot.
Most of these apps also have a website. For example, you can use Facebook as an app or as a website on the browser by using www.facebook.com. The same goes for Youtube, Quora, and Instagram.
Using the website takes a little extra effort compared to using an app. For example, the website requires you to open a browser, type the website and then wait for a couple of seconds. Apps do all this within a blink of the eye.
You must use the extra effort required for the website to your advantage.
As human beings, we do not like spending extra effort. The extra effort needed for the website helps in overcoming the urge in itself.
3. Log out of websites like Youtube, Quora
Most of the social networks today work on Machine Learning. Based on your usage, social media knows exactly what you like and dislike.
For example, I liked watching The Impractical Jokers, The Carbonaro Effect and short book summaries. If I opened Youtube, few of these videos would show right on my face. I would succumb to the temptation like a dog offered a meaty bone and click on one of them.
When you logout, Youtube has no idea who you are or what you like. Try opening an incognito browser window and check what videos show up. I doubt you will like the videos shown there as much.
Besides, logging out each time and logging in again turns into an extra effort. As mentioned in the previous tip, any extra effort leads to less temptation.
4. Don’t wait for the exact hour or half-hour to begin
If I reached work by 9:20, I would decide to start at 9:30. To spend those 10 minutes, I would check some random group messages. One of the messages would lead me to a Youtube video. After watching that video, I would continue watching the recommended videos.
At 9:30, I would be halfway through the video. But because the video was so funny, I would not stop between the video. I would proceed to watch until the video comes to an end at 9:36. Now that I crossed my best time to start, I would postpone my work to begin at 10. You know the rest of the story. The vicious cycle never ends.
Do not wait for the clock to strike the exact 30 minute or hour like 9:30, 10, 10:30, 11. The first best time to begin was in the past, the next best time is right now.
5. Find ways to reduce distractions like headphones, closed rooms, DND board
The more you stay around people and scenarios which lead to small talk, useless conversations and random gossip, the more you will end up wasting time.
People will speak loudly, crack jokes, answer calls on their phone, drop a bottle, ask you unnecessary questions and more. As much as possible stay away from an environment that facilitates distractions. You do not have to isolate yourself from the rest of the world like a prisoner in an isolated cell. But whenever possible stay away from the commotion.
Using empty rooms when available prevents you from being accessible. Using an earphone(even without any music) blocks people from bothering you for no reason.
You can also cultivate a habit of asking people to not disturb you for a certain like 9 AM to 11:30 AM every day.
Every workplace, job role, and culture has a different working style. Do what you can to reduce scenarios that lead to distractions.
Working among distractions is like many people talking at the same time in a meeting. Nothing good comes out of it.
6. Set an end time for a break
Whenever I finished a task, I felt I deserved a break. The problem was not in the number of breaks I took. The problem was how long the break went for. Sometimes I would complete a task in 30 minutes, convince myself I deserved a 5-minute break before I moved to the next task.
The 5-minute break would turn into a 30-minute break. Many a time I have taken more than a 30-minute break for completing a task of 30 min. We have all been there, haven’t we?
Set a time to end your break. If you decided to take a 10-minute break, the break ends in 10 minutes. Even if you are catching up with your gorgeous new colleague, the break should end in 10 minutes.
7. Keep 1 thing open
I had a bad habit of leaving my browser window open with many tabs. I would also have multiple browser windows open, each with over 10 tabs. On average, I had 20 tabs open with different websites. Some were websites I opened a couple of days back.
I did not need most of them, I was only lazy to close them. Most of my work involves a browser. So, sooner or later, when I delved deep into work, some notification would show up on one of the tabs I had left open. For example (1) Facebook.
I would click the tab to check what the notification was. Even if the notification was a friend asking for a life on Candy Crush, I would end up wasting some more time on Facebook.
The only browser tab or application that you should keep open is the one you are working on. Close the rest. Make it a habit to close the application or the browser once you finish the task. If not, the activity from the open tabs invites you to click by screaming “Click me please, click me.”
8. Follow the 2-minute rule
The 2-minute rule was introduced by David Allen in his book, Getting Things Done.
As per the rule, if you come across any task or a job that needs less than 2 minutes to complete, you should do it then and there without postponing it. Remembering the task later, recalling necessary areas and then doing it will take 5 or more minutes. In some cases, you might forget it completely.
You are just about to step out for a break and you receive an email that needs a quick reply. Do it right away.
You are taking a break and recall a quick phone call you had to make. Pick the phone and make the call then and there.
9. Do something you love
The most effective way to stop wasting time is to work on something you love. You do not have to do what you love as a full-time job.
For example, if you want to run a business, you can start making small progress towards your dream even with a full-time job.
You can even pursue a long-forgotten hobby. Did you dream about playing the guitar in your teens? Pick the guitar and spend 30 minutes every day.
Doing something you love serves as a catalyst for ignoring things that waste your time. Working on what you love serves as an adrenaline rush. The adrenaline helps you flush the other distractions out.
Why do we waste time?
As human beings, we like to take the path of least resistance.
In simple words, when you have multiple paths which lead to a destination, you tend to choose the easiest one.
Similarly, when we have a choice between working on a task vs wasting time, we choose to waste time because it is easier.
The chances of wasting time increase if you dislike the task at hand or find it boring. If you have a task in an area you love, you do not waste time as much.
For example, if being a pro guitarist is your passion, you will not spend 30 minutes on Instagram during your guitar practice. However, if you work at a job you hate, you postpone the tasks forever and spend time on Youtube instead.
How to stop wasting time on the internet?
To reduce time on the internet keep internet away as much as possible. With the smartphone in your pocket, this is not easy to do. You must reduce your exposure to the internet by keeping your phone on DND, closing unnecessary tabs, uninstalling social media apps and turning off as many notifications as possible.
How to stop wasting time on Youtube?
Youtube has a powerful method to determine what videos you might possibly like. It predicts which video you might like based on your age, gender, location, and many other parameters. If you log out of the account when you use Youtube, it no longer knows anything about your likes. When random videos are shown which do not match with your interest, avoiding Youtube becomes far easier.
How to stop wasting time on social media?
Social media uses a hook to keep you hooked. A hook is nothing but a trigger that urges you to come back and use the site. Instagram uses likes, people who viewed your story as a hook for example. Your best bet to overcome such hooks is to turn off notifications or put your phone on DND. When a notification causes you to check your phone, it means the phone controls your behavior. Instead, you must turn the tables and check the phone when you like to.
To stop wasting time, it took me a long time. I first had to accept that I was wasting time. Next, I had to find my biggest time-wasting habits and then build the discipline to get over those habits.
Do not expect to get rid of your time-wasting habits in a day or two. You will need weeks or even months. Have the discipline and patience to target the improvement over the long term.
If you start with the intention of getting rid of all your time-wasting habits in a week, you will give up before you even get started. Yet another waste of time.
What I am not:
What I am:
Continuously improving self-learner
Productivity/Time Management Obsessed